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On Evolving Love

Today is, was, would’ve been – technically is, our 14 year anniversary. We’ve always just known we’d be together since we started talking again – so we never regarded our wedding as anything but a piece of paper. (We were married 9 years ago tomorrow)....

On Being a Lighthouse

“Lighthouses do not run around looking for boats to save, they simply stand and shine.”A version of this very thought occurred to me on a long run yesterday. The world can be exhausting for someone like me. My reality is comprised largely of helping others...

On Open Giving

Why are we always keeping score?This was a massive issue in my marriage. I was so convinced that everything had to be equal. Tit for tat. You do this, I’ll do that. Divide up responsibilities and its more fair. One person isn’t doing all the work. It’s process. It’s...

On Difficult

“Sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same” – The Fray It’s easy to choose easy, right? When things are comfortable and feel good – our brains and bodies want to rationalize why it’s fine to live in that comfort zone. We want to...

On Perspective

“Crying at all is not allowed. Not in my castle on a cloud.”I was on the way back from Miami today and I’m always genuinely impressed by the depth of the clouds in Florida. There are always layers of several different types – it can be raining from a...