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So, what?

So, what? So what if I don’t need saving? So what if I’m not looking for codependency? So what if the things that i want you to provide don’t include money? So what if I require you to feel your feelings? So what if I’m looking for someone to grow with? So what if i...

On Giving in.

Mediation didn’t go well.  We will go to court now. The internal voice started almost immediately, “Well, you know he’ll make it into your fault. You’re unreasonable. You’re unyielding. You’re never fair.” This state was all too familiar. It was the state I fell...

On Lifting the Load

I stepped into the gym. After 10 minutes of being in my car. I didn’t want to. I trick or treated with the kids, got them into bed an hour late (and they still didn’t wanna wake up), stayed up til 12:30 analyzing my codependency, my narcissistic ex’s strange behavior...

On Guessing the Ending

What if the universe, God, whoever you believe in is orchestrating this most epic plot twist divine timing crazy amazing movie and you’re just at the middle still?  I am the WORST when i watch shows that are new. I have anxiety, so i sit there and ask questions...